My first offer from an MFA is in the offing. It's not formal, yet, probably because there's quite a mating dance around funding that we need to do. Also, I won't hear from other programs for another several days or even a week (mostly due to U/RTA ethical rules), I need to do more research, and the program chairman needs to communicate with all his first choices/top waiting list candidates (I assume). I'll name the program from which I accept an offer when it happens. What I do feel comfortable saying about the program now talking with me is that one of it's greatest strengths (for me) is its strong connections to the classical theater world.
This much now seems clear: I AM going to grad school. Hunh. I'll be damned. I was already working on Plan B.